This 25-year-old lady married a widower with 18-yeqr-old son, 16-year-old daughter, check the trouble she is facing and her decision
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Good afternoon ma, pls post for me. Am in a deep delima right now, am a girl of 25yrs, I got married last year October to a widower with 3 kids.
Before we got married he had nothing doing and my parent bought him a vehicle so that he can be using for transport. I met him in 2018 when I was still working, so I was really d one shouldering most of his responsibilities, like buying the children clothes, their hair, school fees, and part of house rent.
When I met dis guy he had nothing, only five plates, a gas and 4 pots, the kids were malnourished, so I took pity on the kids and took the two girls to my parents. The boy is the oldest 18,while the girls are 16&14, I thought this guy truly loved me, even when the boy and senior girl were not in support of the relationship I wasn’t bothered because I thought his love was enough for me.
But immediately after we got married I stopped working due to some circumstances, then I took in that was when things changed. He started picking offense with everything I do. He started warning me not to scold his kids whenever dey do something wrong that I should give birth to my own, if I beg him money, problem, I became his everyday punching bag.
He will beat me to the extent I will faint, that was when people started advising me to leave, that maybe that was how he killed his first wife who was pregnant and developed bp leading to her death. But I was like the marriage is not up to 6 months, why should I leave.
On sunday here because of N400 that I begged him I was beaten to comma. When I woke up my mum told me that he threw my properties outside and they’ve gone to carry them.
Why am here now is that, both families have agreed to meet tomorrow and dissolve the marriage, and my dad has planned to take the vehicle back, but what is bothering me is that I want to remove the baby, cuz I can’t give birth to a fatherless child, and my parents are against it that I should give birth to d child, how can I give birth to a child now when am as broke as hell?
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