This was posted in Ndi Anambra Facebook community a few days ago. It’s such touching story of a young lady who did 11 abortion in her 9 years of dating a young man. The story was shared by the young man. He is getting married to another lady, not this one whose womb has been removed
Read the story as shared by the guy himself
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“Hi there , I am 36 and about to settle down. Dated a lady for about 9 years or there about.She got pregnant several times and we both opted for abortion, we both took the decision.
I tried alot of times to tell her the danger about this and how to protect herself. This lady doesn’t know her freezone and all that. In 2017 after the last abortion, her uterus caught an infection that made her bled and smell for months and was finally removed. That was the point i realized that the journey to our forever has ended.
In as much as I wasn’t and we weren’t ready for babies then, I knew one day I will like to be called a father. It’s been three years the womb was removed and its one hell of a ride for me.
Right now I want to settle down and make a family. My friends advised I give her a cash of 1.5million while i have a closure on her . At least it would go a long way towards setting her up.
Its been a tough one and I got the courage to do so on 30th December,which she left me at the eatery. There wasn’t any violent form of reaction from her.
Emotionally, we are compatible but physically No. Someone already has my baby growing in her womb and I really want to sort out things with my girl before proceeding.
I went to her home and I was told she traveled to her home town Benin precisely for the season, I called, she picked and sounded okay.
At this point do i go ahead with the marriage plan with the other lady? Since everything is cool with my ex?
To make it clear to the public. She had 11 abortions in 9 years we stayed and it wasn’t totally my fault . I couldn’t bring myself also to sign for hysterectomy if her life wasn’t in danger” keep me anonymous.